Execute on What Matters with JB Glossinger

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“I believe as the leadership team goes, so goes the rest of the company. So if you don't have that consistent and significant sustainable growth, you've got some work to do.” — Mike Goldman

This episode explores what it really takes to execute on what matters without getting buried in distractions, overload, or endless opportunities. The conversation centers on self-leadership, clarity, consistency, and the discipline to align daily action with long term priorities.

The Core of Great Leadership Teams

  • The most important characteristic of a great leadership team is clear communication.
  • Effective communication has two essential parts:
    • clear expectations
    • clear takeaways
  • Expectations need to be understood in every direction:
    • leader to team
    • team to leader
    • peer to peer
  • Lack of clarity around expectations often leads to scope creep, frustration, and resentment.
  • Strong teams also stay connected to the bigger picture by regularly returning to the takeaways:
    • why the team is here
    • what matters most
    • what the work is ultimately meant to accomplish 

Authentic Leadership and Becoming

  • Leadership is deeply connected to authenticity.
  • Strong leadership requires being real rather than performing a different version of oneself in different settings.
  • Authenticity includes both vulnerability and strength.
  • Real leadership is not about image management. It is about congruence between how someone lives, leads, and shows up.
  • Becoming the next version of oneself requires discipline, organization, and intentional effort. 

Busy Does Not Equal Productive

  • Busyness is not the same as progress.
  • A simple filter is offered: if something is not connected to mission or vision, it is worth questioning why it is being done.
  • Many leaders stay overloaded because they do not say no often enough.
  • Success often creates more opportunities, which increases the need for discernment rather than more activity.
  • Without clarity, cognitive overload builds and decision quality declines.

A Simple Framework: Mission, Vision, Values

  • The conversation introduces three foundational elements:
    • Mission: what will be done over the next 12 months
    • Vision: who will be become over the next 12 months
    • Values: what matters most during this season of life
  • Values are not static. They can shift with age, priorities, and lived experience.
  • Mission and vision create a practical lens for deciding where time and energy should go.
  • Values serve as a decision-making model.
  • The framework applies not only to individuals, but also to leadership teams and organizations.

Integrity Between Personal and Organizational Values

  • Organizations lose credibility when stated values do not match actual behavior.
  • If a company claims to care about stakeholders, people, or impact but operates only from profit pressure, people notice.
  • Great organizations align what they say with how they actually lead and make decisions.
  • The same principle applies personally. Misalignment between values and daily life creates dissatisfaction, even when outward success looks impressive.

The Cascade: From Clarity to Execution

  • The framework expands into a practical cascade:
    • mission
    • vision
    • values
    • goals
    • projects
    • tasks
  • Goals support mission and vision.
  • Projects support goals.
  • Tasks support projects.
  • The biggest breakdown usually happens at the project level.
  • Too many open projects create noise, distraction, and fragmentation.
  • A key recommendation is to limit active projects to roughly six or seven at a time.

Why Projects Matter More Than Most People Realize

  • Projects are where scope creep, distraction, and shiny object syndrome tend to show up.
  • Most people do not fail because they lack goals.
  • Failure often happens because too many simultaneous projects dilute attention and energy.
  • Leaders benefit from identifying a small number of priority projects that directly support their most important objectives for the year.
  • Anything outside those priorities becomes easier to decline. 

Saying No as a Leadership Discipline

  • One of the strongest themes in the episode is the importance of saying no.
  • The more successful someone becomes, the more opportunities appear.
  • Not every attractive opportunity is aligned with long term purpose.
  • A powerful example shared in the conversation is the decision to walk away from a massive business opportunity because it did not align with the desired life, business model, or definition of success.
  • True success is framed less as scale and more as peace, alignment, and joy. 

Consistency Breaks Down Under Cognitive Load

  • The main reason people fail to execute consistently is not laziness. It is cognitive overload.
  • Too much information, too many inputs, and too many competing priorities make follow through harder.
  • Overload often leads to poor judgment, stress, and self criticism.
  • Systems that do not include flexibility tend to fail.
  • Sustainable execution requires both structure and recovery. 

Resetting Without Shame

  • There is strong emphasis on not beating oneself up after losing momentum.
  • A useful idea offered is “wash, rinse, repeat.”
  • Instead of judging the lapse, the recommendation is to reset:
    • clear the board
    • return to what matters
    • rebuild the plan
    • reestablish consistency
  • If a habit stops, it often needs to return to the beginning of the process:
    • create the task plan again
    • track consistency again
    • allow it to become automatic again
  • The message is simple: starting over is not failure. It is part of the process. 

Awareness Before Perfection

  • Clarity does not have to arrive all at once.
  • The process starts with awareness rather than perfection.
  • There is no requirement to have a fully formed life plan in one sitting.
  • For those feeling overwhelmed, the advice is to slow down and begin with small questions:
    • What matters most right now?
    • Who is being become?
    • What would make tomorrow better?
  • The work of aligning life and leadership can take years, and that is normal. 

Slowing Time Down Through Focus

  • Writing down the most important priorities for the day is presented as a way to reduce overwhelm.
  • Narrowing focus to a few essential actions creates a sense of spaciousness.
  • Time often feels compressed when the nervous system is overloaded.
  • Prioritization, journaling, and reduced stimulation can help slow that experience down and create a greater sense of control. 

Journaling, Outcomes, and Wins

  • Morning reflection is highlighted as a valuable anchor.
  • Instead of building a long to do list, there is a focus on identifying the most important outcomes for the day.
  • Tracking wins is equally important because the mind naturally fixates on what went wrong.
  • Journaling is framed as a practical tool for attention, perspective, and momentum rather than just introspection. 

There Is No One Right System

  • Different people need different tools.
  • Some people thrive with planners.
  • Some prefer whiteboards.
  • Others work best mentally or through spreadsheets.
  • The key is not forcing one method on everyone, but creating enough structure for execution while allowing personalization.
  • Good systems are adaptable to the person rather than rigidly expecting the person to adapt to the system. 

The Morning Coach Model

  • Morning Coach began as a daily call based on simple encouragement and structure.
  • Over time, it evolved into a long running daily coaching platform with thousands of episodes and a loyal membership community.
  • The program now includes daily coach casts, planning tools, community support, and systems designed to help people stay aligned and consistent.
  • The long term success of the platform came through experimentation, mistakes, persistence, and continuous refinement. 

A Memorable Lesson from Wayne Dyer

  • A standout lesson shared in the episode is the reframing of difficulty.
  • The insight: the work being done is not hard in the grand scheme of life.
  • That perspective shift changed how challenges were viewed and helped make business and life feel lighter.
  • The episode closes by reinforcing that self leadership is essential to leadership of others.
  • Without clarity, boundaries, and personal alignment, it becomes difficult to lead a company, a team, or a family well. 

 

 

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Mike: Most high achievers don’t need more motivation. They need a real operating system. Today I’m joined by JB Glossinger, founder of Morning Coach, and creator of the Get It Done Now Framework. For 21 years, JB has built a member supported daily coaching system, helping founders, CEOs, and high performers.

Cut, cognitive overload, get clear and execute on what matters. In this conversation, you’ll learn how to say no more often. Simplify your planning and create steady momentum without burning out. JB welcome to the show. 

JB Glossinger: Man,I’m glad to be here and I’m glad I got people that can write intros ’cause that sounded really good.

Mike: made that up all by myself.

JB Glossinger: Yeah, that was awesome. That was freaking, I need to, where do I send the check?

Right. That 

Mike: Who, whoever wrote that for you, give ’em a raise. It was really good. 

Hey, JB you know, I always start the, these shows in the same way. This is all about building [00:01:00] great leadership teams. So, from all of your experience, what do you believe is the one most important characteristic of building a great leadership team?

JB Glossinger: it’s really simple and it’s critical. It’s, communication and there’s two aspects of it, if you don’t mind me expanding a little bit on it, and I actually have it on my wall, and that is the communication needs to be about expectations. And takeaways. If there are not clear expectations both ways from the leader and the team, this is what we expect from you.

This is what, and even the team, everybody needs to know what the heck’s going on. Clear expectations both ways. Sideways when you hire somebody, because scope creep is the number one thing that kills. Most high performers, you get somebody really good and you start giving ’em a bunch of stuff that was never expected.

Now of a sudden, they’re angry. You’re angry. So that’s one piece of that communication part. And the second one is to constantly be talking about the takeaways. Why are we here? What’s going on? You know, even in, marriage, most relationships denigrate because, oh, she didn’t put the cap [00:02:00] back on the toothpaste.

So now all of a sudden you’re starting to focus on that. So instead of looking at the takeaways of why we’re here, what are we doing, what is all going on? If we don’t have those things, leadership is really not valid. It’s not strong, so you have to have communication through great expectations and communication through great takeaways.

Mike: Well said. I love that. and you know, while on this show we, we talk about how to build a great leadership team in not my newest book, my previous book called Breakthrough Leadership Team. I talk about the six pillar. Of building a great leadership team. and the first one is self-leadership. and I have a feeling in our discussion today, we’ll talk a little bit about the team, but man, we’re gonna dive into self-leadership, probably deep, deeper than I have on this show before.

So, let me dive in and looking through all your stuff and. Preparing for this. I know, you know, you talk about the idea of aligning who you’re becoming with what you’re doing every day. [00:03:00] 

JB Glossinger: Yeah. 

Mike: is, dig into that a little bit. What does that 

JB Glossinger: Well, I think even going back to our first question, if we just want to keep going forward with what makes a great leadership team, let’s continue that theme is authenticity. and I know that’s the buzzword of a day, but you have to be real. Like you can’t be the person that’s different at the house than when you are there.

I mean, I sleep really good at night because I lead my team the way I am. I mean, there’s times when I’m a 12-year-old kid, and even in my events, people say, well, there he goes. And I have people say, JB not now. Don’t be a 12-year-old. Right. I like to have fun, but at the end of the day, you also, there’s a serious side.

You need to know when to be serious and when not to be. But that has to do with authenticity. that’s true leadership. Like you gotta be able to be vulnerable, but you also have to be strong, right? So it’s like a combination of things that occur when you’re moving forward with being, being a leader.

So authenticity, is such a critical component of that and really becoming. You know, just allowing yourself to expand. And in order for that to happen, there has to be discipline organization. [00:04:00] We call it vision becoming more like a year. Two years ago, I decided to run, I’m not a runner, but I said, if I’m gonna do this, I’m gonna qualify for the Boston Marathon.

I qualified for the Boston Marathon. I ran a 3 27 in Toledo with a failed marathon before that. But what that meant was I became that person. I’m authentic. I can say I did it. You can’t pay for that. You can’t buy it. I mean, I wish I could buy a golf game. You can’t. You can’t buy a Boston Qualified Marathon time. So I think being truly authentic is such an important part of what we’re discussing in the big picture.

Mike: how does. You know, the leaders that are listening to this are busy people. they’re finding a time, thank you for listening to this. But they’re busy. and how does someone know back to being authentic and becoming, you know, who you really are is how do we know whether we’re, you know, whether we’re actually becoming the person we want to be.

How do we know if we’re being productive or if we’re just busy.[00:05:00] 

JB Glossinger: Mike, that’s a, it’s a great question, and I just to refer back, anybody listening to this is awesome, right? Anybody listening to this is already somebody that’s doing something different,

you know, 

Mike: actually one guy, JB, there’s one guy listening who’s not who, and you know who you are. You know, I don’t know. I don’t know if that fits him, but everybody else, you right, go ahead.

JB Glossinger: Okay. Okay,great. but it’s still awesome, even him, right? He’s here listening and we’ll talk about some things that hopefully can help him, right? So yeah, it’s a, it’s, you know, I’ve gone through, so, and I’ll use myself in as example. Look, I am no angel and no saint. I have had made more mistakes than anybody in business and in life.

I went through corporate, I ended up running companies, sitting in an office, hating my life as I’m running an aerospace company. Of going, what am I doing? Because my value was freedom. And here I’m working 60 hours a week with a beautiful home and Miami, beautiful Colombian wife. I love my family. I love everything, but I hated my life.

And because I wasn’t true to my authentic values. 

So if we’re gonna step back, there are three core things in our system that are really critical. It’s a [00:06:00] mission, it’s a vision and values. I don’t wanna get into the corporate jargon of mission and vision, because those go a bunch of different directions.

And our vernacular. A mission is what you’re gonna do over 12 months. A vision is who you’re gonna become over 12 months. And a, your values is what’s important to you at that time in your life. And they’ll change. They’ll change. I’m 56 now as I get older, things change, but the key is to understand those key components because going back to busyness. Well, if it’s not part of your mission or vision, why are you doing it? So it’s really about teaching yourself to say no to more things. It’s the opposite of what you think, and the more successful you become, the more opportunities you’re gonna have. So you’ve really gotta build that muscle to say no, or you’re gonna cause a lot of stress. Cognitive load, it’s gonna cause you to not make good decisions. So stepping back to that, you ask what’s important, doing a values assessment. I was in corporate running aerospace company, 400 people. [00:07:00] I hated my life. Why? My parents are blue collar workers. I was making 10 times, maybe 15 times more than they ever made in a year.

I’m making that. I was killing it. I hated my life because I didn’t understand what was important. And what was important to me was freedom. And I had come from a sales background, just FYI, buying and selling, aircraft and stuff. And so then I went into management and it just didn’t fit. it was the opposite of what I was.

And so those. Three components are really critical for anybody to sit down and really reflect on what do I really wanna do?

Mike: So let’s dig into those. I love those. So, so mission, vision, values. 

is there a sequence? Do you start with values, then vision, then mission or the other way? or does it matter?

JB Glossinger: I don’t have my book here, but the Sacred Six I wrote for Hay House. My last book, I wrote it like 10 years ago. This new book has actually changed the, it’s got the whole structure. It’s a lot more evolved, but that was a big argument. What comes first? Values or mission or what comes first, vision or mission?

And really it, as long as we get clarity, it [00:08:00] doesn’t really matter what comes first. I think to me it used to be mission, but I’m now starting to lean more to vision’s more important because vision is who you’re gonna become. This year. I’m learning Spanish, I’m gonna be a fluent Spanish speaker.

That’s my vision. So it’s I also live in Colombia, so it’s like I want to be able to do my business in Spanish. Not just, you know, be able to commerce, but, so I’m changing who I am as a human being. That’s really important. The mission, bringing 800 plus coaching clients into morning coach is great, but that’s. You know, it’s not changing me as a person. It’s more business related. And then values I think are extremely critical because they’re your decision making model. You have to run what’s important to you. We usually do six or seven. So when I go faith, family freedom’s not as big for me anymore. It’s more about contribution now.

So that’s gone down the list. So I’m actually working harder than I ever have because now I want to have contribution, but I know that, so those mornings when I get up and I’ve gotta do the work. Write the books and do things that I [00:09:00] really don’t need to do. ’cause I’ve built a great business. It’s okay, I’m gonna contribute.

Freedom isn’t as important right now. So analyzing your values is really critical, and that’s our terminology. But even in an organization, I mean, we can go back to Jim Collins, right? Good to great. I mean, it’s just one of the best books written years ago, and that’s a lot of my learning was my MBA and Jack Welsh Aerospace, Six Sigma.

That’s where I come from, right? So I brought a lot of quality standard into what I teach because that’s my background. And so when we look at that stuff, it’s we’ve gotta look at that even organizationally, not corporate jargon. But what do people really believe in the values? If you say, we’re gonna go out and we’re gonna, you know, be this company that’s for the stakeholders, we’re gonna help the environment and do all this stuff, but then it’s just profit driven.

Why aren’t we growing 20%? Why aren’t we going, people are gonna call you on your bullshit. Right? So we have to have integral value, mission, vision, values for ourselves, but then our leadership team and our organization also to have that integral into what we’re doing. And again, going back to Jim Collins, I’m [00:10:00] gonna give credit where credit’s due.

That was all his research that said, Hey. The great companies have that figured out.

Mike: So, so I wanna get down to nuts and bolts and make this real as an individual. And I’ll use myself as an example. So I would imagine. Values, you know, what’s important, change, but probably don’t change very often, like you said, for you contribution, you know, became more important. But the vision and the mission, how many visions and missions should one person have?

Like I look at my life and I’m like, well, I got my business and this year I’ve got. You know, two or three really important things I wanna do in my business around, you know, around how many keynotes I’m out there doing and how I’m changing the world through my last book and some technology products.

and then I’ve got, you know, I’ve got my health that’s really important and I got about 20 pounds to, to lose, or my wife is gonna kick my ass, and then I’m a dad and I’ve [00:11:00] got, two grown adult kids, so. Do we, you know, do people have, 4, 5, 6, 8 visions and missions?

Or is it one at a time? What does that look 

JB Glossinger: Let’s go through the whole process. Okay. So we have a cascade, we’ll simplify this. So we have mission, vision, values, okay. And then we have goals, projects, tasks. Okay? So this all came from the Sacred Six from Ivy Lee years ago from an Earl Nightingale book that I read, that I listened to where this Ivy Lee PR guy went into Carnegie that was running the steel mills and said, you know how, you know. The Carnegie said, I don’t need any more knowing. I need more doing. I need practical shit. I need you to, I don’t need more any doing. He said, okay, what I want you to do, and I’m gonna bring this all the way back, right? He goes, I want you to write down what’s important today. I want you to start on number one, and this is before computers and distraction and everything.

This is 1900. You know when the steel mills were just getting started, so he said, I want you to write on number one, and then I want you to go to number two. Once number one’s done, I want you to finish the day and whatever isn’t, and [00:12:00] prioritize those things. Start on number one. Go to two, whatever isn’t done, you move to number one and two on the next day.

Okay, so. Carnegie said, okay, thank you. I’ll try it. He started to do it, put it to his leadership team. Ivy Lee came back and he said, well, what’s it worth to you? He literally wrote him a check for $25,000, which is worth about $250,000 in today’s money. This is a true story that Earl Nightingale told on Lead the Field in the first real personal development album, right?

So I heard it on a tape recorder in 1990. Started to apply that to my life. That’s where the Sacred Six come from. So if we look at the cascade mission, vision, values, then we go goals, projects, tasks. The key thing is the project. So what you just started talking about is we have a North star. You have your business, obviously there’s probably some revenue or there’s some freedom aspect that you wanna build in that.

Okay. Is your business stuff then what I heard is vision. 20 pounds the end of the year. Right now, you don’t wanna learn a language or anything. You want to really get healthy. For me, two years ago was run in Boston, so it’s Hey, in December I wanna [00:13:00] show up and be 20 pounds lighter. That’s my real vision.

That’s really important to me for my family to show them. So now all of a sudden we have these North star big goals, right? This is what we’re gonna do over 12 months. Some type of financial or some structural, not pie in the sky, but something realistic over 12 months, cascade it now. Values are what’s important.

Okay, all this aligns. We have the goals. Okay, now we can start doing the goals that are gonna take us to our mission and take us to our vision. So obviously, losing 20 pounds, probably the first goal is to learn lose five, right? So you start setting up some goals, set up some goals to your business goals. Then we get to projects. This is where it gets crazy because the projects lead to the goals. The breakdown occurs here. This is where I say you should only be working on six to seven things at any given time. So what you’re talking about is having these big mission and visions. I’m saying, no, let’s isolate.

We only have a year. You know how fast it goes. It’s not slowing down. Let’s make sure we’re gonna accomplish our North Star mission and vision. So have structure [00:14:00] there. You can have a few, but I really would like to isolate and then. Let’s look at that project and task level, and we build planning systems so we have ’em for the remarkable and the iPad.

We have a complete system with this, but what you wanna do is understand the project level. This is the Scope Creek. This is where everything breaks down. This is where the Sacred Six really works. It’s like you only have so many projects you should be working on, so there’s probably One Health One in there. Right. And then the rest are probably business stuff. And then what happens is as you start doing the tasks, there’s a three step task system. First is to build the task, whether it’s with AI or whatever, how it’s going to be done the second time is to manage it through consistency. I have a check in here, and once you become consistent Boston Marathon Qualified Runner, it’s nowhere. I don’t need to put it anywhere anymore. I’m done. So there’s a hierarchy of structure of what we work with. And again, this all comes from years of working with, I’m not an engineer, but I’m an MBA, but not an engineer. But [00:15:00] years of working in aerospace in the quality area and going wow. We could really put this into organizations, into life.

So to your point, your mission is business related, keynote structure, that type of stuff. Those goals can be there, 10 keynotes, whatever you’re doing. and I’m very familiar with that business, so I understand it. Vision, I think would be the getting in shape, maybe body shaping, a little bit of weight loss.

And then we break it down. We have some goals, we cascade it down. We have projects and we have the daily task, but where we screw up is the projects. Okay? So we gotta eliminate everything that’s coming in that’s creating noise, that’s not gonna get us to those two main North Star objectives. Does that make sense?

Mike: It does. and so it sounds like the key is, when you come up with, you said no more than six or seven projects and one project may be health related, Four of them may be business related, one may be, you know, whatever. But it sounds like the key is not only what actions do I need to take to accomplish those [00:16:00] projects down at the task level, 

JB Glossinger: all the way down. 

Mike: that, that I imagine is tells us, it tells us what we ought to be saying no to.

It’s Hey, I’ve got some shiny object that comes in. Is that part of one of these projects? If it’s not. Why am I working on it?

JB Glossinger: I work with professional golfers all the way to CEOs, to a lot of professional people, and that is the number one problem. And here’s the thing, when you’re just getting started, a lot of times this isn’t an issue, right? A lot of times it’s not an issue like you’re, you can structure things properly, but the more successful you become, the opportunities are coming at you.

So I’m not. I’m not gonna say this from an ego standpoint. I have built an amazing system. Jack Welsh was one of my people that I really followed. I had a huge defense contractor come at me with 120,000 employees. Okay? I have a, I live in Colombia. I’m building a place in Palomino, Colombia, my wife, Colombia.

We have a place in Ibague. I’m in Chicago with my mother. I have a retreat center up here for her now, just a little lifestyle stuff here. I had a company approach me. They said, JB will give you a thousand dollars [00:17:00] per year per employee. Now you do a hundred thousand. ’cause it was not the 20 were maintenance in other areas, but they wanted me to bring my systems in for a hundred thousand people.

That’s a hundred million dollar business. Okay? I just wanna, so over 10 years, I could have, be I, my little business could be a billion dollar business. So here’s what happened. I flew there. We had discussions, I’ve talked through, I said no. People think I’m nuts. I have friends that are like, you’re insane.

We talked about private jets. They wanted to take all my systems. So here’s the thing. Morning coach would be gone. All the people that I’d be gone, they would take, oh, my ip, why do I say this? Because I believe in my systems. So I turned down the biggest project that most people, if I was 35, I’d have done it.

I’ll be just full disclosure. If I was three five, I’d have been in, but I’m 56. I love my life, you know ? I’m happy with the people I work with, and I’m not trying to build this gigantic thing. So why I am, I’m bringing this back because it’s [00:18:00] not part of my mission and vision, right? So as you become more successful, you get more and more opportunities that come your way.

And it’s happening to me right now. I’ve got so many opportunities and I just say no. I just say no. I, it’s not part of what’s gonna bring me joy and happiness and what I believe is true success is total peace. So that’s where the big issue comes for all of us. We’re all grinding so hard. Like in running we have zone two and zone three, zone four, zone five, running great runners train in zone two.

That’s almost walking. People think, wow, you know, you’re not doing anything. I do 40 miles a week. Most of it’s zone two. It’s nine minutes a mile. It’s not very hard. 10 minutes. But that’s building a cardiovascular base that allows me to run a 3 hour and 20 minute. Marathon. Same thing. In life and in business. You have to have structure, so you’re not always at zone five in zone four, and so many leaders are living in survival mode every day because they don’t know how to say no to things that are coming into their life, whether it’s their spouse, [00:19:00] whether it’s the significant other, whether it’s their family.

You have to get clarity of what’s important and stick to it.

Mike: So you come up with a plan. You’ve got your mission, vision, values, you’ve got your goals, you’ve got your projects, you’ve got your tasks. But what causes, most leaders, most people have the ability to come up with a plan. The planning part, if you’ve got a process is not the hard part, but most people can come up with a plan.

They know their goals, but they struggle as I have from time to time with. Consistency. You know, for me, from a business standpoint, man, I’ve got that consistency From a personal health standpoint, I’m not where I need to be. Hence me saying, you know, one goal is to lose, to get healthier and lose weight, lower my blood sugar and all that stuff.

in your experience, what causes that breakdown [00:20:00] between knowing what to do and having a plan but consistently executing on it?

JB Glossinger: Cognitive load. Very simple. It’s just you’re overloaded. Everybody’s overloaded. Like too much information, too much education, and not enough action. and the brain can only handle so much. that’s why, you know, quitting drinking for me was huge. Not that I ever had a problem. I just became a marathoner.

You know, I couldn’t drink alcohol and run marathons. It just impossible. And also running, that was a big part of me to help manage cognitive load. 

The other thing is you gotta give yourself a break. Like we, life is a rollercoaster. Life’s gonna happen. There is no perfection. and that’s a really important, any system that inherently doesn’t have flexibility is a bad system.

Now, I show up every day, that’s why I’ve done 6,000 episodes. It’s my blessing and my curse. I have. Oh sure. I just pull it out. I was a C and d. Oh, you can’t see it that good. But I was a, this is my report card, C-D-F-D-B. That was my final senior report card, and I ended up going to do my MBA, my PhD. I had to read three books a week.

Zig Ziglar, one of my [00:21:00] mentors said, you gotta read. And so I actually feel. Over the years. Now I’m pretty intelligent, right? And it’s because I had to work and do it consistently. That’s not without errors along the way, but my point is, the key is to give yourself breaks. Be really clear about what you’re doing, and be careful with cognitive load, like overload.

I gotta do this. Because if you get too much of that going on and you’re like, I’m not disciplined enough, then you start beating yourself up and your team, you, everybody feels it. You don’t have the energy to do what you need to do. And it causes real problems. I’ll tell you, I just had a big issue with myself where I started getting caffeine addicted.

I took up caffeine for running because it’s great. At mile 16, you take a hundred milligrams of caffeine. So I started drinking Celsius. I’m not a caffeine guy. Next thing you know, I’m doing four oh milligrams of Celsius. Time is compressing. I’m getting stressed out. I’m drinking. During day, I feel amazing. 

But all of a sudden the cognitive vote hit and I started to have, making bad decisions, bad judgments. So I said, whoa, I gotta back off of that. So stepping back. You need a [00:22:00] system that you can plug into with consistency. That’s why I believe what you know we’ve built is really important, but you also gotta step back as yourself, not beat yourself up.

And I call it wash, rinse, repeat. And every once in a while you just gotta wash, rinse, repeat. Meaning, you gotta just clear the boards, clear the whiteboards clear everything. In fact, one things I do with my CEOs is I say, look, what I want you to do this weekend is forget you’re in the business. I want you to act like you sold it.

I want you to come in with all new perspective of all your people, of everybody. And I want you to start with a clean slate. Come in with a totally different attitude, so stepping back again. Don’t ever beat yourself up about the past. No leader should ever do that. It’s all who, what is who? You know why we’ve become who we become. But the beautiful thing about life is we can start over any day. Like you could start tomorrow with a cleaner path and a cleaner direction, and we, again, task development. 

First, we put the plan together, then we model it with consistency, and then it becomes automatic if you stop doing it. It has to go back to the start again.

Okay. This is basic quality stuff, so, okay, I’m not working [00:23:00] out, I’m not doing what I need to do. Okay, stop. Let’s go back. We’ve gotta create a new task plan. We’ve gotta start tracking the consistency, and then one day it’ll be automatic. That’s life. There is no perfection. And so you need a system that inherently you can work with, that you can model your life through.

Very important.

Mike: Going back to kind of bigger picture around not projects and tasks, but back to vision and mission, is there. if someone is listening and they’re struggling a little bit with, you know, either I’m not sure who I want to become and I’m not sure what I need to do in the next 12 months, and I’m thinking as an individual verse versus a big strategic business goal as an individual, I’m not sure who I wanna become.

I’m not sure, you know, what I wanna, what my mission is over the next 12 months. Could be that. Or it could be, Hey, I’ve got 57 things I want to do and I’ve gotta narrow it down. Is there a. Is there an exercise or a process you suggest people go through to, [00:24:00] to try to get clear on that high level vision and mission?

JB Glossinger: There’s a lot of things you can do, right? 

So there’s like envisioning your funeral and you know, I can go through a lot of the standard coaching kind of practices, but my personal opinion on that is it starts with awareness. So it’s like enlightenment’s kind of a funny word, right?

We, you know, if I’m in the spiritual side too, that’s kind of where I live and we talk about enlightenment and somebody that is enlightened isn’t gonna say they’re enlightened, right? They’re just not going to, because they’re enlightened people that do meditation. Okay. What if you think, am I doing it right?

Am I meditating right? You’re doing it right. So this type of work, like trying to figure it out just as long as you’re aware it doesn’t have, again, it’s not perfect. It doesn’t have to be today. This is a process. I mean, I have people that I’ve worked with for 21 years, right? So I have people, I have a belt system, so I have black belts.

I have a gentleman that was three years German engineer. He started with me his first year. His wife thought he was absolutely crazy. She’s I don’t even know what you’re doing with this mission, vision stuff. He had, [00:25:00] almost had a heart attack. He was stressed out. Year one started getting things together.

Year two, phenomenal. Year three he told me, and it was just awesome. He said, my wife finally said, I don’t know what you’re doing with that morning coach thing, but I love the man you’re becoming. And his life’s amazing. He’s one of my biggest, he does meetups. He loves people. He’s awesome. He’s changed his entire life. Took him three years. So it’s about awareness, right? it, nobody teaches this stuff, like nobody’s teaching you to get super clear about what you need to do. So for me, there can be techniques, but what I really think the most important thing is just start, start thinking about what is my vision?

Start thinking about what my vision is. Who do I want to become? Who do I, and then if you can’t really grasp that, what do I wanna do tomorrow? Slow way down, what can I do to make my life the best? 

When I work with somebody that comes to me and says, JB, I’m just so stressed out. I say, okay, stop. Let’s just step back, get your whiteboard out every morning, and write down the most important things you need to do and just do three of ’em today.

And it’s amazing [00:26:00] how that starts to slow everything down. Time is psychological. Time is really important. When I talk about compressing time, people that are slamming

coffee all day. It. Your time just goes fast. If we can slow time down. A lot of this allows you to slow it down. Now all of a sudden it seems like you have more you can get done during the day because you aren’t so freaked out in cognitive load.

So stepping back if you don’t know what to do, just do just little things, baby steps. This doesn’t have to be done in a day. Like we’re talking about life planning. What drives me crazy, Mike, and this is crazy, is I’ll get with people and I’ll talk to them and they’ll spend $150,000. And a year on their wedding. Okay, one day of their life. But when we talk about this stuff, they’re not willing to even spend a day. And I’m like, what are we doing here? You know? And this is at events, you know? And, well, I brought my wife because she thinks this is a bunch of bs. And you know, I told her, you know, we spent all this time on the wedding.

We need to spend some time on our life. And I mean, we’re talking about our lives here, we’re talking about our [00:27:00] businesses here. So I think it’s important we step back and try to figure out what’s important.

Mike: Yeah. 

And I love what you said about writing it down. I learned something similar from the first business coach I ever had over. Man, I guess it’s 20 years ago, maybe over 20 years ago. And he had this grand term he used every morning. You gotta do, he called it executive creation and decision making.

What it really is, and what I still do to this day is in the morning before the day gets started, before I start getting into email or getting any real work done, is I journal. What are the outcomes that I’m committed to achieve today? Not my to-do list, not I’m gonna make this phone call, I gotta go to the dry cleaner.

I gotta what are the two, three, or four most important outcomes that I’m committed to achieve today? So if I’m gonna,if it’s not record a podcast, it’s, make [00:28:00] sure I’m recording information that’s gonna, change lives. It’s 

JB Glossinger: love it. 

Mike: it’s not have a call with this prospect.

It’s, I’m gonna close the deal. It’s not, and sometimes it could be personal stuff, but I journal what are the three, four or so outcomes that I’m committed to achieve today. And then below it, I got my wins and I start, you know, everything, things that happen. Good. I know at the end of the day, I could remember all the crap.

JB Glossinger: Yeah,

exactly. 

Mike: but we gotta document the wins. and 

JB Glossinger: a hundred percent. 

Mike: is every once in a while, there’s a day where I don’t do that. For whatever reason, my day gets started. Maybe I wake up late, something happens is the day I don’t do it. And I tell you, I, it’s become such a habit that I get to the end of the day where maybe I was really busy.

But I have no idea if I was productive. And when I don’t do that, I feel stressed because I’m not sure I’m doing the right things. And it sounds like that’s, it sounds like that, that’s part of your system as 

JB Glossinger: Oh yeah, journaling is huge because it journaling slows time down again. So those a couple points you made. One the [00:29:00] mind always remembers the negative, so I work with pro golfers. I can have a guy shoot a 62 and he’ll tell me all his bad shots. I’m like, wait a minute. I wanna hear about the Eagle on 13.

You know what I mean? So, yeah,it’s really important that you, have some techniques. 

But I wanna step back with techniques real quick. ’cause I think it’s an important point. Mike, you made something great. You learn something from a business coach that you’ve applied. So here’s why your show’s great.

Like when you do leadership and other people come on. I’m a weird teacher. I like people to go experiment with all type of techniques because there is no cookie cutter thing. My system is a broad system and we’re, everybody that I work with has different thought processes. I have people like Jurgen, who I was telling you is a German engineer. Who is ama? He has, he’s 96 page plan. I mean, this guy is unbelievable. I have Karen, who is an, runs an e-commerce huge company who’s amazing, and she writes nothing. She’s got her, it’s all mental. And she structures this in her mind and she uses some spreadsheets. Very complicated, very intelligent person. So everybody needs their own patterns, like everybody [00:30:00] needs their own thing. So that worked for you, which is great. And that’s part of the process. My thing is get clear, understand our structure, and then utilize the

techniques that work for you. Yes, we got planners, but not everybody wants to use this.

Some people like a whiteboard, some people like to write it on pen and paper, so it’s really important that when we talk about your structuring, that you find what works for you and you’ll find that by doing things and some things will resonate more. So I think it’s great. Yeah, I’m a huge fan. I teach journaling. for me it’s a non-negotiable Now, before it wasn’t. I usually teach saying. You should journal when you feel like it. But I’m like, you, I need it in the morning. It slows me down. So journaling is a very important to me. I do very similar thing. Outcomes. Also, I’m a huge reader, so I’m, you know, writing my notes for reading.

We do a book study every month. So we do these arcs, like our first one was cognitive arc. Then we’re gonna do habits where we take three books, we break ’em down. So I’m constantly in learning mode, but everybody’s an individual. There is no cookie cutter program, you know, and I think that’s a big problem when it comes to leadership and development.

A lot of times it’s like we got [00:31:00] systems, right. But when we bring our teams together and you’re forcing a Kanban board down, a person that needs a piece of paper or you got a spreadsheet person that’s a visual person, that’s a problem. We need to have a little more emotion and empathy. For the people around us, and we need empathy for ourselves.

So when somebody comes to me, we have a software, we’re developed companion. They say, Hey, JB, I’m in, it’s a $200 thing where I have my whole coachee program with software and everything. And they’re like, I wanna do this. But then they start using a software and it doesn’t, ma, I’m not angry about that. It just doesn’t work for them.

You know what I mean? So it’s really important when it comes to these. Personal growth areas and things we’re going to do. You have to find what works for you. And that’s really critical and that’s a big part of what we do. It’s man, you have, you’ve gotta be customizable to the system. So I’m glad to hear journaling works great for you. Some people it doesn’t.

Mike: Yeah, tell me more. 

we’ve hit different facets of it, but tell me more about Morning Coach and how you work with your clients to take me through what that [00:32:00] program looks like.

JB Glossinger: Well, it’s evolved. I mean, I started off, if you don’t mind, right? I’ll tell you a little history. 21 years ago, trying to be a speaker. So I wrote a book, Get Out of Neutral, had it published. I spent $40,000 on it, all my money and failed. It is the worst thing that, I mean, it was a disaster. I didn’t know what the hell I was doing.

I thought everybody would hire me. I was paying to speak. I’d pay 500 bucks to go speak. We took a thousand books and sold two. Had to take ’em all back to the car. I mean, it was just disaster after disaster. And so in doing that, one night I got drunk, I’m, I have again, full disclosure, I don’t care. And my buddy was there and he’s dude, your stuff’s good.

Why don’t you do like a message of some type? So the internet really wasn’t going then, but I found free conference call.com. I bought a internet, a book called Dream Mover. I went on Alta Vista or whatever and found morning coach.com. And I started doing a conference call every morning. I literally built this ugly page.

It’s still out there on way back.org, where, give me your email and I’ll give you a phone number, right? And you can call in. So I had people calling in and then a hundred people started calling in, broke the lines. So then I was like, oh [00:33:00] my God, what do I do? And I found this podcasting thing. So I started podcasting in 2005, and I used to just do it ghetto.

Like I would do it with a line like this, like all my phone. And in the background, somebody would actually be going to the bathroom. It was the craziest thing and I didn’t know how to mute the line. So my first episodes, people were emailing me and going, you shouldn’t really go to the bathroom when you’re trying to teach something.

It was crazy. So it was just air after error. But what happened was in 2006, like 280 episodes in somebody at iTunes loved what I was doing and featured it, and we went to top 25 in iTunes. I beat Tony, I beat everybody. And I was starting to speak at Blog World with Tim Ferriss and Gary Vay Vee and everybody.

It was crazy. But between 2005 and 2009, we didn’t make any money. There was nobody that cared about podcasting then. I had a huge audience, but there were no sponsorship. So 2009, my dog passed away. He’s behind me over there, big German Shepherd I had. And I went to Colombia and I came back and said, I’m gonna, I’m gonna charge.

And I started charging $20. And at that time I had 13,000 people in a site we made. And they would listen [00:34:00] every day. And, 1300 people came with me to listen every day to my coaching systems. And it was like a billion dollars to me. I was a millionaire. Like it changed my life. Like those people are the most special people in the world.

And what’s crazy about it is I was so angry with a 10% conversion. I’m like, oh, this sucks. I can’t believe it. I’m terrible. And now we get 1%, like it’s so hard, you know? And it was such a great journey. But then over the years, you know, I’ve worked with, Wayne Dyer who became a friend, which was great through Hay House, and I’ve had just great experiences, but working with people over the years really brought me to where I am today.

And we have an evolved system now that took 21 years to get to working years, doing 6,000 episodes, listening to a really. You know, being able to put a vocabulary to this and really build a great system that I’m extremely proud of, that changes life. So what do we do is every day I do a coach cast 365 days of the year.

So people that need it are there, we do a workbook with that. We, have a community of amazing founders and people that have meetups. They just had a great meetup today. they get together and it’s a hundred bucks a [00:35:00] month, and I have a software now that we developed a hundred bucks a month. So I’ve built this coaching program that I can do because.

It’s not millions of people, right? I can do it at a level that I can work with people and not kill them. And that’s important to me because I did, I went through the mastermind thing. I had a $45,000 mastermind. I do some retreats that are a little higher, but it just wasn’t me, you know? And so now the business is a really foundational piece of what I do. It’s what I love and I work with people every day through a coach cast. They listen to it in the morning. It’s part of their morning routine. All my systems are set up so they know their mission, vision, values, and they can connect with other professionals. So it’s been a really great journey.

Filled with a lot of mistakes along the way, but that’s morning coach.

Mike: Love it. And by the way,you, you mentioned, Wayne Dyer and I’ve got a bunch of his books behind me on the, the bookcase that you might not be able to see. But I was a big fan. 

JB Glossinger: Well, Wayne, can I give you a quick one on leadership from Wayne? So,

first time I ever met Wayne was on a podcast interview and, Reed Tracy, a CEO Hey House, who I was writing for, said, Hey, JB, I want [00:36:00] you to write a book for me. I said, okay. He goes, I want you to meet Wayne. Wayne was his best friend. So I get on the phone with Wayne and I’m getting ready to interview him like this, but this is old school.

There was no video or anything, you know. So I’m on the phone, I say, Wayne, I said, Hey, it’s great to meet you. I’m such a big fan. and just to share with you, I got to share the stage with Wayne when, at the end when he was, you know, getting sicker. And I actually got to tell him how much he meant to me.

It was, 5,000 people. It was one of the most magical moments of my life to tell Wayne because when I was struggling at the beginning, I used to use wisdom of the ages and stuff, and that’s how I kind of got my start. So long story short, I’m on the phone with Wayne for the first time. I’m excited. I’m giddy, you know. he goes, how’s it going, JB Reed, tell me all about your business. I said, I love it. But you know, it’s hard. You know, the coaching business is hard because not everybody’s into personal development and it’s really hard. And I said 10 times, and Wayne goes, it’s never been hard for me. And he was quiet and I’m like, did I make him angry?

Did I just piss off Wayne Dyer? What’s going on? I mean, he was dead quiet. I mean, the line was quiet for three minutes. It was the longest three minutes of my life. And he goes, JB, it’s not hard. [00:37:00] He goes, roofing’s hard. There’s so many other things that are hard and literally. That piece of advice has been worth millions of dollars to me.

It changed my whole outlook on life because what I do isn’t hard and everything changed for me. Like all my business changed, everything became easier. Just one little piece of Wayne Dyer changed my life. It was unbelievable.

Mike: One thing I’ll never remember from, one of his, I don’t remember if it was a book or one of his specials on PBS that I watched way back, but he said when he wakes up in the morning, the first thing he says when he wakes up is, thank you. He’s like, thank you, thank you. So I said, huh? I said, I don’t know where.

I dunno if that’s the first thing you said, or the first thought that went through his head was, thank you.

And I’m like, I never paid attention. I wonder what my first thought is. When I wake up in the morning and I kept forgetting to, to track what my first thought was and the first time I remembered to do it, and I may have to bleep out what I’m about to say.

I don’t know how, I dunno how much you, you know, how the level of curse word I could use on a [00:38:00] podcast, but I woke up and my first thought was, oh fuck. And I’m like, that’s not good. That’s kind of the opposite of thank you. but that always stuck with me where,and thankfully and I think you’re in the same position I’m in, you know, I feel like we’re two of few very few people that where I absolutely love what I do every day.

I mean, I’m, I, you said you’re 57? 56. I just turned 61 this year. And some folks I know a lot of people that are starting to slow down or think about when they’re gonna retire, and I’m like, I’m just getting started. 

JB Glossinger: Came in. 

Mike: peaked yet. What are you talking about? 

JB Glossinger: I feel like I just started my business. I honestly, I love it. I feel like I just started 21 years, like I finally am figuring it out. you know what I mean? I finally have a, it took me 21 years. Well, I’ll tell you a funny thing. I used to think I needed gray hair. I’m getting gray hair here.

And I used to think like all my mentors had gray hair. I’m like, I, nobody’s gonna listen to me unless I have gray hair. That was my belief, right? You know, I gotta have this wisdom. And so [00:39:00] now I’m there, like I’m finally wise . So I’m excited.

Mike: Yeah, it’s funny. 

Well, hey JB, this is great. So, so if someone,is interested in finding out more, whether it’s morning coach or you know, or getting a new book, where should people go if they wanna dig 

JB Glossinger: Let’s do this. Let’s do this. ’cause I have the planner system I have for free. I mean, I don’t usually give it away, but I’m gonna give it away to anybody that wants my planning system. So if you have any. Like a remarkable, it’s a 988 planner page planner. This thing’s awesome. And if you read the book, get It Done now,it’ll tell you how to use this thing and I’ll give it to you free.

So we’ll do morningcoach.com/BLT. How’s that sound like?

Mike: There you go. I love it.

JB Glossinger: blt. Okay, we’ll do BLT and that way no email or anything. You can just come download the planner and then if you wanna learn about Morning Coach, it’ll be there. I’ll put the episode up there. We’ll do some cool stuff. for your listeners and anybody needs, I’m chill.

Like the one thing if, you know, I have an issue with marketing, like I’m not a marketer, like I’m not a hype guy. I’m not into that or I’m a long-term relationship guy. I don’t wanna close anybody into anything that I do. That’s the last thing I want to [00:40:00] do, you know, so. I don’t wanna get all hypey about stuff, but I am, this is the first book that I’ve written with my heart, Hay House.

 I wrote for money. I mean, they gave me a ton of money and I wrote it quick, get it done. My first book, when I left corporate, it’s just get it done. Try to make money. I told my wife, we’re gonna make so much money, we never sold ’em. I ended up selling all of them, but this is my first heartfelt book.

I don’t care if I make a dime, I really don’t. It’s really the systems that are gonna change lives.

Mike: He doesn’t care if he makes a dime, but go buy the book and give him a little bit of money. 

JB Glossinger: It’s free on unlimited. It’s actually free on

unlimited. 

Mike: Great. 

JB Glossinger: I’m leave it on unlimited.

Mike: JB this is great. I really enjoyed talking to you. I always say if you want a great company, you need a great leadership team. Self-leadership and all the things we just talked about are so critical to that as a leader, if you are not taking care of yourself.

And understanding what you’re saying yes to and what you’re saying no to, you can’t be good for anybody. You can’t be good for your company. You can’t be good for your family or [00:41:00] yourself. So, just awesome stuff and I appreciate you being on the show.

JB Glossinger: No problem, Mike. Keep doing what

you’re doing, brother. We need energy out there and everybody’s listening. Very important that you made it to this part. How awesome are you? This is what it’s about, right? We’re different. We all know we’re different. Just keep striving to be the best.

Mike: thanks JB. Great talk. 


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